They Left the Country Music

Posted September 26th, 2005

A Wal-Mart store in uptown New Orleans was looted, and John Stonaker was quoted in an article by Mary Foster, an Associated Press writer. Stonaker said, “They took everything-all the electronics, the food, the bikes…The only things left are the country-and-western CDs.”

Now I’m not commenting on the moral implications of looting and stealing all the merchandise. I guess Wal-Mart’s “Everyday Low Prices” were not low enough when a natural disaster hits. And I certainly am not demeaning the suffering of people. Sometimes looking at things differently, maybe humorously, can be helpful for healing. I guess it’s a Southern trait, like a preference for country music.

What bothers me is that the looters did not take the country music. I listen to a diverse mix of music, and believe diversity is helpful. After I read the news article, I thought about what useful lessons country music contains about living during the storms of life. Those country music CDs might be just what is needed during the evacuation and the temporary living arrangements.

For example, George Jones has a new album titled “Hits I Missed…and One I Didn’t.” Even the title is instructive. It was said when Katrina went east of New Orleans that once again the city had missed a hit, but then it didn’t really miss. I won’t bore you with an analysis of how all the songs apply in this situation.

Here are a few analogies, from the twelve songs on the album. “Here in the Real World” talks about how things are different in the movies than in real life. In the movies, people don’t cry and good always wins. We would never be blue, if life was like the movies. There’s a great line in the song, “here in the real world, it’s not that easy at all ’cause when hearts get broken it’s real tears that fall.” Because we have expectations of instant gratification, like the movies and television and commericals promise, we forget the real world can be a disappointing place at times. Our hearts can be broken and our tears will fall. It’s a sad fact, but a true one.

“If You’re Going to Do Me Wrong, Do It Right” is a song that tells about all the things a man bought a woman. The man tells her to take it all, if she’s going to do him wrong. He wants her to do the wrong right, he doesn’t want to see the proof or know the truth. And it is terrible to see the proof of a hurricane’s destruction or know the truth that levees and other barriers will not always hold.

The title “Pass Me By” is instructive in itself, and the singer is just wanting bad experiences to pass him by. The song “Too Cold at Home” contains the line, “I’ll sure be glad when these dog days of summer are over.” All of us will be glad when this summer and fall are over, because people need this time to pass.

Then the song “Busted” talks about hating to beg for food and clothing, but the singer is busted. He says, “I’m no thief, but a man can go wrong when he’s busted.” People are going to need lots of help, for a long time. Those who can should donate money and time to help. The singer does not ask for help in the song, but just states the facts and the reasons.

Can you see how useful country music can be for helping us deal with tragic circumstances? I have often made it through times of despair by hearing a meaningful phrase in a country song. Try it, you might like it. By feeling bad, we often get better.

This entry was posted on Monday, September 26th, 2005 at 5:38 pm and is filed under In the News.